When I write dating tips and relationship advice for a new mode, I am writing to a female audience.But neediness is not gender-specific – guys make the mistake of being “needy” too!So the only way you really can empathize is to know their side of the story.Men and women are different in many ways, but we’re more the same than you may think. We all have dating disappointments and horror stories.
(FYI, we have a whole chapter on this in our new book “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want“) Even the kindest, most well-meaning, most empathetic guy won’t be able to satisfy a woman who acts needy the majority of the time. I would be pretty surprised if you never had a needy guy around you. Making someone else responsible for your emotions is a key ingredient in creating a toxic relationship type dynamic, so it’s very important to guard against doing that (as well as recognize when others are doing that towards you).They kept whispering in each other's ears and Ben was quite touchy with Lindsay." The couple shared a plate of lobster and a few pasta dishes."They left together out the back door and were walking very closely together," the eyewitness reveals, adding that the duo both "looked very happy."Both Affleck and Shookus have yet to confirm their relationship.One assumes that love is reciprocal, but of course, it’s not always.[click to continue…] Tagged as: 40 dating, boomer dating, Dating after 40, dating after 50, Dating Goddess, dating over 40, dating over 40 advice, dating over 50, dating over forty, mature dating, midlife dating, online dating book for women over 40, over 40 dating, senior dating One of the most common items I see listed under men’s “What I’m looking for” area in online profiles is “drama free.” It makes me scratch my head wondering why it’s so common.